Forgiveness After Betrayal
Could you ever go back to an ex? Could you forgive if your partner cheated? I know I don’t usually talk about my relationship in this way on the blog, but I told you about finding John’s love language, and about stuff that went down with my exes so…
Even though this is hard for me to share… I’m going to. You guys know me for being candid and 100… so… here goes:
I admit. I have cheated in the past. And it wasn’t OK…but hey, I did what I did.
I’m truly so blessed and lucky to have someone in my life that is willing to forgive my betrayal.
I tried to make it work with someone new.
And I openly shared here about my illicit affair with another man.
But.
My boo.
My main man….
He waited for me.
Patiently.
On the bookshelf…just waiting for my azz like:
He knew I’d be back.
He knew I couldn’t get what I was looking for from anyone else.
We talked. I cried…ok really it was some sweat that dripped into my eye….
Now look, we still have things to work on. (It’s why I left him in the first place) He’s still bossy, yells at me, constantly demanding I focus and go hard, push harder, dig deep, max out… ugh. It’s infuriating!
BUT….
He supports me like no other. He’s there for me when I need him. When I’m bleary eyed at 6:30am or feeling fat and bloated at the end of the day… he’s there.
He believes in me. He is the best motivator…
So…
We’re back together!!
I know some people say you can’t go back to an ex…. and some things are unforgiveable….
But my baby knows me, deep down to my soon to be tight core. He loves me. He forgives me.
And he’s going to help me get abs.
Since we can’t go back to the way we were…. We’re starting fresh.
30 minutes a day we’ll see each other, and if I Max Out before 30 minutes, it’s OK. He won’t yell at me.
He’ll just support me as I take a sip of water and get back to him.
We’re also keeping things spicy this go round. Getting kinda kinky with some group action…
I’ll be seeing these two every other night…just to keep things poppin’
::sigh::
Aint love grand.
Just thought I’d share my truth….
Have you ever gone back to an ex?
What workout are you doing now?
I simply cannot with you. I’m not seeing anyone seriously right now. I mean, the Pilates lady and I had a situation, but it just didn’t work out.
Don’t give up. You CAN find true love. Yoga perhaps? Bootcamp? At-Home workouts?!
I’m glad you gave your ex a second chance.
Ugh.. I have gone back so many times.. it’s like you can’t get enough but then you get tired of the same Ole stuff.. very pushy and demanding. But oh boy, when he’s done with you you just feel grand.. pros and cons
Yesss! Which program do you keep going back to?
You’re hilarious!!! I just finish weeke 8 of T25! Back to Nike Training App and running since it’s nice out, but I def want to try insanity 30 when it gets cold. Setting up my gym in the basement slowly too, so this addition would be perfect.
So…I’m sitting here ashamed at how,long it took me to realize the okey-doke!
HAHA!!! Yay!!! I’m glad I tricked somebody! 🙂 So, what workout are you currently doing?
First of all, if I had a pearl necklace on, it would have popped and pearls would be all over the flo right now. Secondly, mannnn…I need to get in BETTER shape just to get to Shaun T anything. I’m 5 months postpartum and I’m proud that I’ve been at least walking daily for the past month. Time to ramp it up and I think I’m going to join a gym!!
First of all, you’re only 5 mo post partum. (congrats) be gentle with yourself. I’m proud of you for walking!!! That’s great.